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Please call me

Ellie

“Mrs. Brooks” is fine when we first meet.

Eleanor Brooks · 84 · Duluth, Minnesota

I spent 38 years as a school librarian, and I still have opinions about your book.

I'm a retired librarian, a stubborn gardener, and a lifelong fan of Ella Fitzgerald. I like a slow morning, a good crossword, and people who tell me what they're reading. I was married to Walter for 52 years, and I have two children and four grandchildren I'll happily tell you about.

“Knock, tell me your name, and give me a minute to finish my sentence. Then I'm all yours.”

In Ellie’s own words

If you only have a minute

Talk to me about

Whatever you're reading, my tomatoes, Lake Superior

Best time to chat

Late morning, after my coffee and crossword

Speak to my right side

I hear best there. Face me and speak clearly.

Please don’t

Call me “sweetie” or “honey,” or rush my mornings

What makes me me

I'm curious about everything and I like to keep my hands busy. I have a dry sense of humor — if I tease you, it means I like you. I'm independent and I'd rather do something slowly myself than have it done for me. I grew up in a Swedish Lutheran family, and some of those traditions still mean a great deal to me.

CuriousDry humorIndependentEarly to bedLoves to help

A good day looks like…

Not a schedule — just the small things that make a day feel like mine.

  1. Morning

    Waking on my own, coffee with a splash of cream by the window

  2. Mid-morning

    The crossword, in pen, with nobody offering hints

  3. Lunch

    Eating with a table of people who like to talk

  4. Afternoon

    Fresh air and some time with my plants, then Ella on the record player

  5. Early evening

    A phone call with Maggie, and the six o'clock news

  6. Night

    Chamomile tea, a mystery novel, lights out by ten

My favorite things

Music

Ella Fitzgerald, Duke Ellington, Benny Goodman. Sunday hymns, especially “How Great Thou Art.”

“Ella Fitzgerald Sings the Cole Porter Song Book” is the record I always come back to.

Reading

Agatha Christie, Louise Penny, anything set in Scandinavia. Large-print is just fine, thank you.

I'm always glad to recommend something.

Food & drink

Strong coffee with cream. Lemon bars. Meatballs with lingonberry. A ripe tomato with salt.

Not a fan of peas — never have been.

Things I like to do

Crosswords, tending African violets, folding laundry or napkins, watching birds at the feeder.

Ask me about

  • Story Hour at the Duluth library
  • Dancing at the Pavilion with Walter
  • My trip to Stockholm at 70
  • What you're reading right now

Brings me joy

Cardinals at the feeder. Photos of my great-granddaughter, June. Snow, as long as I'm indoors.

My daily rhythm

Preferences, not rules. Some days are different.

Morning

Up around 7:30

Slow and quiet. Coffee before conversation. I like to choose my own clothes — a cardigan, always.

Midday

Most social time

Lunch is my main meal. I enjoy company and a good debate.

Afternoon

Gentle pace

A short rest after lunch, then music, plants, or a walk if the weather allows.

Evening

Winding down by 9

Quiet time. The news at six, then reading. A lamp on, not the overhead light.

Helping me feel comfortable

  • Knock, wait a moment, and say your name — especially if we haven't met.
  • Sit down at my level when we talk. Standing over me makes me feel hurried.
  • Tell me what's happening before you do it, and let me do what I can myself.
  • I run cold. My blue cardigan should always be within reach.
  • If I seem low, put on Ella and ask me about Walter. It almost always helps.

Things to know

Shared by Ellie and Maggie so you can avoid small upsets.

Names
Please don't use “sweetie,” “honey,” or “dear.” Ellie or Mrs. Brooks.
Noise
A loud TV in a shared room wears on me. I'll often leave rather than say so.
Mornings
Being rushed first thing can set the tone for my whole day.
My things
The photos on my windowsill are arranged just so. Please ask before moving them.

My people and my stories

Walter

My husband of 52 years

Maggie

Daughter · calls most evenings

David

Son · lives in Seattle

June

Great-granddaughter, age 3

Every Saturday for nearly 40 years I read to children at the Duluth Public Library. Some of those children now bring their grandchildren to visit me. I can still recite most of “Make Way for Ducklings” from memory, and I will, if asked.

Voice & Memories

Ellie’s own words — a few stories, a familiar laugh, and some ordinary moments worth keeping.

Care team can see Family only

Video · October 2026

A little about me

Ellie introduces herself at the kitchen table, coffee in hand.

● Care team can see

Audio · August 2026

The story of how we met

How Walter went from two left feet to the best foxtrot at the Pavilion.

● Care team can see

Video · June 2026

Story Hour, one more time

Telling June about Saturday mornings at the Duluth library.

Family only

Video · May 2026

A message for my family

Recorded for Maggie, David, and the grandkids.

Family only

Audio · April 2026

The song that always makes me smile

Humming the one Walter always asked for, while watering the violets.

● Care team can see

Video · Christmas 2025

Just me being me

Losing at cribbage. Mostly gracefully.

Family only

What matters to me

01

Being asked, not told. I'd like a say in my own day.

02

Being useful. Give me a job — I was never one to sit idle.

03

Sunday service, or at least the hymns. My faith has kept me steady.

What I’d like you to understand

“I may be slower than I used to be, but I'm still the same person. I've lived a full life and I'm still living it.”

Last updated October 12, 2026 · Maintained by Margaret Brooks-Hale (daughter) with Ellie